Oftentimes, when I have learned a powerful lesson, I embrace it but I don’t verbalize it. Other times, I verbalize it but the words fall very short. Today I read the following excerpts from Elizabeth Lesser’s, The Seeker’s Guide. This is what I want to say and often want to explain. I am so grateful to her for putting it so well. I add just this one imput: We cannot love well in our own humaness. We need to tap into the source of love in order to do that. God is that source, for God is love.
‘…Love is the fruit of spiritual labour; it is not a technique you try or a dogma you adopt. Love is the secret you unmask yourself to find; it is the foundation of the spiritual life, the destination where all roads of the journey lead. But it does no one any good to rush the process, nor to enforce loving behaviour. Loving behaviour is unenforceable and herein lies the mystery of the spiritual life and the mistaken role of religions. You cannot legislate forgiveness; you cannot make hate illegal; you cannot require love. Just as you can’t pull a shoot out of the ground and demand that it flower then and there, love cannot be forced. Spiritual work prepares the ground.
Love will blossom when our egos and our wounds and our fears have been worked with, tilled into the soil of our understanding.
When we do the hard work of stilling the mind and opening the heart, we come into love….
You can’t force yourself to love others. If you could, the world wouldn’t be in the mess it is now…’